Nicole describes the Ulysses Salon on Bookstoker

Spend the Winter tackling Ulysses with Toby Brothers and The London Literary Salon

By Nicole Hubbard (published on Bookstoker)

After a chance conversation with a friend about life after 50, she casually mentioned that each year she had taken on a new project outside her comfort zone. Reading Ulysses was last year’s challenge and with considerable generosity, she unearthed a niggling desire of mine to read Joyce’s great modernist work and offered to put me in touch with The London Literary Salon and its director Toby Brothers. Later that dark early January night, I booked the last place on the course. What follows was simply the perfect way to spend 20 Tuesday evenings of those dark winter months…sitting on the tube to Kentish Town, Ulysses in hand (Penguin Student Edition with notes was recommended) reading and re-reading the travails, poetry, exchanges, wanderings, musings, loves and longing of Leopold and Molly Bloom and staying the course with Stephen Daedalus as he fumbles his way to full artistic expression.

In the first six short weeks, we had encountered new languages and labyrinthine sentences; the criss-crossing of the beach and Dublin streets and immersed ourselves in the newspaper room and the pub as the chatter and 3D surround-sound of Bloom’s external and internal world is revealed.  Anti-Semitism, Christian cant, class difference, and a lengthy listing of Ireland’s cultural forebears are exposed and critiqued before we encounter Molly in bed. How does it work? How does one gather 10 diverse readers to joyfully engage with the struggle of a highly complex 900 page early 20th century novel. Book Club format or seminar? Daytime or evening?

Its success lies in the focused, light touch of Toby who facilitates each session, drawing us individually into the discussion, gently and with warm encouragement. Welcomed into her home, we are invited to have a cup of tea or glass of wine before settling quickly into a sofa and chairs around a low table. Books are stacked in precarious columns by the fireplace; Toby sits Ulysses in hand, each page lovingly ruffled and marked with miniature post-it notes as an aide-memoir to themes or extended references.

After pacey introductions, we are invited to share our thoughts, struggles and response to the first chapter. Always hard in a new group, participants declare whether they are newcomers or old-timers (to either The London Literary Salon or Ulysses) and invited to share what inspired them to join; most of us have a degree in English or wish we did. All are committed; one is even reading and discussing Ulysses for a second time.

Close analysis and attention to the rhythm and nuance of language build as we are each asked to read. In the act of listening, much is deduced about the reader and the text, and so the two are interwoven. Our discoveries become personal and collective: One reader understands religious symbolism and the Catholic liturgy; another, with therapeutic training is able to offer insight into Bloom’s projection of love and Stephen’s thwarted desires. A woman to my right is musical and not only decodes but sings the Irish songs giving a richer sonic context to the scene. Toby teases out our thoughts and refocuses our gaze on the text “I’m going to pull us back to Bloom…” At the end, we have all slowed down in a form of literary mindfulness, but are energised as we are given suggestions of other critics to read and our next 50 pages.

It takes us just under six months to explore the creative process and journey through 24 hours of a Dublin day. We finish just in time to celebrate the annual Bloomsday – the day on which the novel is set – with other wild Joyceans in London or Dublin.

Check out more of Nicole’s reviews (and other delicious offerings on Bookstoker

Thanks loads to Nicole for this– the best descriptions of our work together come from participants…we start the big U again January 2020….

 

Concert in Paris 15 November

The wonderful Hélène Larisch– Paris Salonista and organiser for the Tout en Parlant association –offers this fabulous concert to raise money to support the great work of providing cultural offerings and connections for people with limited sight. 

Outspoken Sex Ed Panel Discussion

Outspoken Sex Ed presents a panel discussion…
Doing It Like The Dutch: tips for parents from Holland’s world-class sex ed

Why are Dutch teenagers the happiest in the world? How do the Dutch talk to their children about sex and relationships? And what happened when YouTuber Mimi Missfit took seven British teenagers to Holland on a sex-ed fact-finding mission for the BBC?

Our expert line-up:

  • Amsterdam-based journalist Mark Smith
  • Primary-school relationships and sex education teacher Jonny Hunt
  • Producer of the BBC series Mimi On A Mission: Sex EdIda Bruusgaard

gives parents Netherlands-knowledge insight into how to talk openly with their children about sex and relationships. Expect lively debate on everything from “curving” to consent, and eye-opening video clips, as the panel helps Brits buckle up for some frank conversations.

Mother Pukka founder and Insta-Mum phenomenon Anna Whitehouse, herself half-Dutch, is looking forward to this refresher course on progressive ways of parenting: “The timing couldn’t be better – sex education is in the air, and we’re all trying to figure out how to talk to our children about tricky stuff”

A panel discussion on 12 November at 6.45pm in the Conway Hall, Red Lion Square, London WC1R 4RL

 

More information…

 

  1. Outspoken Sex Ed is a social enterprise dedicated to getting parents talking openly about sex and relationships. Outspoken is developing an interactive website, sends out an informative newsletter and delivers topical, inspiring live events to give parents the language, knowledge, skills and confidence they say they need. Established in 2018, it is led by parents Sophie Manning, Yoan Reed and Leah Jewett, who among them have children ranging from toddlers to teenagers to young adults. Ultimately Outspoken is aiming to change the conversation around sex, love, pleasure and relationships – and to work towards a culture that prizes respect, inclusivity and openness
  2. Parents are the missing link in their children’s relationships and sex education. Talking openly at home reinforces safeguarding, improves mental health and strengthens the parent-child connection.
  3. How do we know that Dutch sex education is the best in the world?
    1. Relationships & sex education has been compulsory in all schools from primary age upwards as of 2012. Dutch sex ed is sex-positive and emphasises diversity, safer sex and communication. The internationally renowned Rutgers institute has developed a holistic relationships and sex education curriculum which it exports around the world
    2. Holland has the lowest teen pregnancy rates in Europe and low teen abortion rates. Under-25s account for only 10% of STIs
    3. A 2013 Unicef report labelled Dutch children the happiest in the world (with a score
      of 8.4 out of 10) and Dutch kids topped the wellbeing charts in 2017
    4. Dutch teenagers tend to have delayed, and pleasurable, first-time sex
    5. The Netherlands is one of the world’s most gender-equal countries

 

  1. Biographies of our three speakers:

 

  • JONNY HUNT is an independent sex education consultant who creates and delivers workshops for children and trains professionals. All About Me – the sex-education programme he developed for Warwickshire primary schools – is inspired by Spring Fever, the Dutch relationships and sex education (RSE) programme for young children. Jonny specialises in delivering inclusive RSE with a sex-positive approach, encouraging both adults and young people to explore their attitudes and values towards
    sex and relationships. Why, he asks, can’t sex and relationships be fun and empowering?
  • IDA BRUUSGAARD is the executive producer of the BBC series Mimi On A Mission: Sex Ed and managing director of Peggy Pictures, which focuses on discovering young, diverse onscreen talent and telling factual-TV stories that reflect the lives of under-25s. Originally from Norway, Ida won
    a gold medal at the New York Festival’s International Broadcast Awards for assistant-producing
    Dogs That Changed the World. She has also directed high-rating primetime programmes for Channel 4 (Sharon Horgan: How to be Married) and BBC1 (Heir Hunters, Village SOS). The second series of Mimi On A Mission – about mental health and happiness – will be released in spring 2020
  • London-born, Amsterdam-based MARK SMITH is a freelance journalist and editor whose features about life in the Netherlands have seen him canoeing through canals and interviewing extremely tall people for titles including The Times, The Sunday Times, Observer Magazine and The Guardian.
    He has edited COS magazine, the Soho House members’ magazine and Time Out Amsterdam.
    In his March 2019 Times pieceWhy Dutch youngsters are the world’s happiest teenagers he profiled five adolescent locals and explored the Dutch concept that “no question about bodies or emotions should be off limits”. Mark co-parents a daughter with his husband and their best friend in Holland
  • Chaired by Outspoken Sex Ed director SOPHIE MANNING

 

  1. Funds raised through this event will go towards the development of Outspoken’s new digital resource: a go-to website where parents can access information
    and expert advice. It features a series of Mayday Moments – tricky situations parents can find themselves in, ranging from “My toddler finds my tampon” to
    “I see that someone has sexted my child” – with responses from our panel of experts

 

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